Pleasing Your Man

     I feel that women so often think that we are the only ones that should be wooed and treated like a princess. Breakfast in bed, roses, oil massages and all the play that comes along with it. But why shouldn't your man be treated like the prince as well. He takes care of you, you should take care of him.
     We all know women like flowers, but guess what, So do guys. All that mushy gushy stuff that we dream of, they appreciate as well. I think if we spent more time thinking about what could do to make our men happy rather then what they should be doing to make us happy, it would make for a better relationship. Do something different, try to focus on activities that would make him excited to teach you and let it be a great bonding experience. Such as sports, building, painting etc. They will appreciate you doing something you don't normally do and I'm sure would love to be the teacher. Let your man be a man!
     When it comes to pleasing your man in bed, that is also VERY important. No matter what age he is, they all love sex. Guys think about sex more than twice as much as women do and constantly fantasize about it. So bring his fantasy to life! Send him sexy texts throughout the day, have a candle lit dinner ready for him at home, dress up in sexy lingerie, show him what you like, try new toys, talk dirty, try new positions and learn to trust your man. Show him you can be a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets!

     Sex is such a beautiful connection you can have with another soul. it is emotional, spiritual and physical. And sex should not only be about one person but both. Cuddle, listen to his heartbeat, hold him tight, shower together, talk and feel the connection that you know you two have. A relationship is always going to take work, but you have to remember to focus on both of you for a healthy relationship.
     One thing that I have found so important is to show him how much you care. Encourage him, show him how much you love him, push him to his best, let him know you are always there to have his back, to pick him up when he is down, choose your battles and love him with all you've got. When you have something good, don't let it go. All good things take work.